appelsinskal ([info]appelsinskal) wrote,
Last thursday was australia day, and it was the day of our exam for the danish course. There are a lot of australians here, and they Love to drink, so of course there was a party. I got invited third hand, since I'm not properly in with the australian crowd, but it was all good. On the way in the door, we met a guy going to the same party as us. He's a polish canadian, and he's in copenhagen to make a movie, but he wanted to take some danish, and that's how he got involved. Oh my, that's a very danish comma scheme in the last sentence.

Anyhow, later on, the polish canadian dude (whose name has disappeared from my head for some reason but I hope if we meet again, it will return) was smoking in the hallway and I went by and chatted with him and his friend (or just a guy he met by the ashtray, see, smoking is good for making friends and being bitter, so two things) for awhile on the way to the bathroom. And his friend was belgian and tall and skinny with a huge grin. If we had babies, they would have the best smiles ever.

And then he left, this smiling belgian. And we said "oh, we should hang out" and I said "I'm sure we'll see each other around, I'm so glad to have met you, and we can get each other's phone numbers sometime" and he was like yes. And then he was unsure of when and how we would see each other around, so we decided we'd better exchange numbers then.

So now I have his phone number, and it's a week later, and what do I do? I think I will text message him... Do you think just a general, hello, do you remember me, sort of thing? Or is it better to say hello, do you remember me, and would you like to go for coffee (except I don't drink coffee, so hot chocolate)? Or even "would you like to go to the cafe (which is really a bar) under my apartment and have a drink?" Or is it better to just phone him? No, I can't face that, it's too much stress. It's not like we have to date, either, really I just want friends, although he is adorable.

Also, there are other people I want to call/text and further my friendship with, but I am sick. It seems silly to call them and say "hey, let's hang out, but we can't talk because my brain is too fuzzy and I don't really want to leave the house or have you over to mine".

And now I should... go... buy some peanut butter... and eggs... and broccoli and tofu... Yup!

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[info]lightwalker

February 3 2006, 13:38:21 UTC 6 years ago

Copenhagen! I emailed back and forth with your sister about colleges last year, and she just nudged me towards your LJ. I´m in Copenhagen for a semester too, taking classes at DIS. It´s good to read someone elses descriptions of the place.

Are you in a kollegiem? It sounds like you´re meeting so many people.

[info]appelsinskal

February 6 2006, 14:13:46 UTC 6 years ago

Wait, what's DIS? I am studying at KU, in about a billion different departments, which confuses everyone here, and makes answering the question "what do you study?" rather difficult.

And no, I wish I were in a kollegium; I visited one of my friends' places and it was so nice and everyone was really friendly and they were having the greatest party with awesome awesome live music. I live with a family, and they are so sweet and nice but I'd kind of forgotten that I hate living with people that I don't know, especially people that have their lives all sorted out and tidy already and I have to come into it, so it's tricky. I met pretty much everyone I know through a three week intensive danish course, and some excursions set up by the international office.

How long have you been here? I'm looking at your lj and a week or two? Are you happy, busy, lonely? Would you like to get together sometime and explore a bit, or have coffee? I figure you must be nondangerous and cool if emma is sending you to me... And I always like to meet new people, especially here, especially after being horribly lonely for the first week or two (god, it's been over a month now, crazy). Give me an email (ceriese at wisc dot edu), although I don't have a computer at home so it could take a day or two for response, or call (50 41 69 67) if you do.

[info]madrumos

February 6 2006, 01:21:54 UTC 6 years ago

hmm hmm hmmm

It's always the smiling Belgians... If you haven't done something already (in which case you should tell me what), I think you should text the guy. Say hello, do you remember me, and would you like to go for coffee. I don't think the week or two or whatever really matters, just an innocent little text that's like "hey, what's up? you're cool and i'm cool, we should hang out." If he thinks you missed the boat and it's too late, then...oh well, he's dumb anyway. If he says "Før süre! This girl is cool, and I'm cool, so I would like to hang out with her whether she contacted me a week later or a month later! I might not even remember her name, but boy is she cute!"

Or something like that.

Hmm
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